Conflicts

A good way to solving conflicts between your friends and family would be talking out any frustrations that are putting a strain on the relationship. I know that when I get so built up inside with a person I hold everything in until it is too much so I vent to my mom or Maddie. In this situation it would really be best to talk it out with the person who I have a problem with but venting is something that will always make me feel better, no matter when or where, talking out my feelings and letting out what I had that was bothering me, is always a positive thing in my opinion. I feel like you can never vent too much, I could be in a horrible mood, vent to my mom and then everything will be fine. I tend to vent to my mom because she gives the best advice I could ever ask for. She makes me put things into other perspectives and really think about what it truly is that is making me so frustrated. I can not thank her enough for always making me happy when things are not looking so good. In any situation where there is a disagreement I may become frustrated during an argument and walk away, but after I think about it from the other person’s view, it becomes a lot easier to understand why we are fighting. When I fight with my sister it is never about anything serious, I can not even think of an instance where we had a legitimate fight about something meaningful. All of our fights are about clothes, our room, what our mom says, or when I watch her she does not appreciate me passing on the message from my mom, she thinks I am being bossy, which I totally understand but when I watch her I am in charge and she does not like that one bit. I have never had a fight with Maddie, maybe because there really is not anything worth fighting over, we will not let something stupid get in the way of our friendship especially because she is going away to college soon so every minute counts when we are together to have fun. If there was any circumstance where one of became upset with the other, it would only last at most a few hours. I do not believe we have ever spent a night fighting about anything. In my life I have not gotten into many fights at all, not even a handful. I don’t take much seriously, and if someone gets upset with me and does not tell me why I won’t waste my time trying to figure it out. When someone gets upset with me I want them to tell me, I don’t like to play games, because I could really care less.