love

Love can not be defined. Everyone has a different type of love and shows it in different ways. Your type of love may not be the same as mine. People throw around the word love like it has no meaning. I can understand loving your friends and family, I tell my friends I love them all of the time, but it is a different type of love. The love for my friends is not the same as for a boyfriend or girlfriend. When people are in a relationship, it seems that they use the word love so soon. It takes time for love to grow and it shouldn’t be rushed. You may think you are in love, but how do you really know? How does anybody know when they are in love? I guess it is just the feeling you get when you are with a special person. This person can make you feel safe, warm, and happy, like you never want them to leave. I believe that you only find true love once, it may take a few tries, but when you fall in love that’s it. Love can be made into a job; you have to keep it alive. If there is no love, true love, relationships fail. I hear it is a hard thing to do, I have never fallen in love, I think being seventeen, love is just a fantasy. Relationships at this age are preparing us for love in the future, for when we are mature enough to work at it. I don’t think there is any specific age that you find love, and it is not impossible to find love at seventeen but I don’t think it is very common. Many teenagers will not become high school sweethearts and last forever, but for those who do it is really something special. That just means they were lucky enough to find each other at such a young age. There is a person for everyone, it may take some longer than others to find him or her, but eventually there time will come. Love is not something that a person needs, I feel as though we all want to find love, but it is not a necessity. We can all be fine without it. Love can be a comforting feeling, knowing that you will always have someone who cares about you and will do anything to please you, sure it sounds nice, and who wouldn’t want that? There is no such thing as having too much love. Love comes in unlimited amounts, you can’t measure the love you have for a person, it’s infinite. True love never fades, it has phases maybe ups and downs but there is always that chemistry between the two people. Love is complicated and people are blinded by love, or at least what they think love is. Love can camouflage someone’s flaws and portray something that is not real. I think this is also a big problem between couples, so you must always keep your eyes open when it comes to having a partner.